• James Valdes, MS, MBA, NCC, LMHC

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    James Valdes, MS, MBA, NCC
    National Certified Counselor and
    Licensed Mental Health Counselor

    James Valdes takes a caring, non-judgmental approach when helping individuals and couples with relationship issues, commitment phobia, co-dependence, breakup or divorce-related issues, love addiction, sex addiction, porn addiction, relationship addiction, and managing depression, anxiety and stress. His passion lies in helping others help themselves in order to reduce suffering using mindfulness and other coping tools. He works with his clients to help them get joy back into their lives and to help them to create the lives they want to live.

    Before becoming a therapist, James worked in professions such as mechanical engineering, sales, real estate, movie production, and he even managed screenwriters and directors in Hollywood. He has been practicing and teaching mindfulness and meditation for 10 years to adults, children, and people in recovery. He has extensive experience working with clients in the medical field and other high-stress jobs. Due to his own personal love of playing sports he also enjoys working with athletes who are working to overcome slumps and anxieties.

    James’s Education

    • Master of Science in Counseling and Psychology, Troy University, Tampa, Florida
    • Master of Business Administration (MBA), Concentration in Entrepreneurial Studies, University of California Los Angeles (UCLA), Los Angeles, California
    • Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering, University of South Florida, Tampa, Florida

    James’s Advanced Training

    • Gottman Method Couples Therapy: Bridging the Couples Chasm – Level 1
    • Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
    • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral (TF-CBT) for children
    • Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) for PTSD

    Let's start working together!

    Individual Counseling

    • 50-minute intake session $175
    • 50-minute counseling $150

    Couples Counseling

    • 50-minute intake session $200
    • 50-minute counseling session $175

    Hours: Monday – Thursday 10 am – 4 pm

    Therapeutic Approach

    The Relationship and Divorce Counseling Center uses an integrated approach that combines:

    • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
    • Internal Family Systems
    • Cognitive Behavior Therapy
    • Exposure Response Prevention
    • The Gottman Method
    • Emotionally Focused Therapy
    • Prepare/Enrich
    • Relational Life Therapy
    • Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
    • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

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